The true value of your job

Phoebe Lee Profile Image Phoebe Lee is a travel writer and award-winning blogger with a love for storytelling. Phoebe creates practical, fun and engaging written content designed to inspire and energise travel-lovers and dreamers. Follow her and Matt’s adventures at home and around the world, right here on Little Grey Box and through Instagram, Facebook and YouTube.

Waiting in line for a much-needed coffee, I casually struck up a conversation with one of the lovely baristas working at the cafe. Somehow our chat prompted me to mention I work from home, which led her to ask what I do for a living. As I explained I work as a travel and freelance writer, the woman standing next to me piped up, “Well, that’s easy. Anyone could do that.”

In the seconds after she spoke, a number of things raced through my mind… most of them were very mean. I took one of the most painfully deep breaths I could, mustered up a polite smile and, turning away from her, grabbed my coffee and left. I was outraged! Later, relaying this story to close friends, I was met with the tried and true advice of, “Sweetie, she’s just jealous.”

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I couldn’t seem to shake the annoyance though and putting it down to her being jealous seemed like a cop-out. This meant the reason it bothered me must have been deeper. I began to recall other times people had commented on my job and how it had made me feel. For the most part, people were incredibly supportive, appreciating the risks and time involved in getting to this point, but sometimes I would be met with the occasional snippy comment. Things like, “It’s not really a job,” and, “Yea, but, you don’t really work, do you.” As much as I didn’t want them to, these comments irked me.

Technically, the differences between working as a writer and working in my old job are minimal. When it comes down to it, the only difference is I am significantly happier working as a writer than I was at my old job. I still sit at a desk each day and work on a computer, writing. I still travel for work and I still get paid for what I do. Heck, even the ATO are on board and have labelled me a professional writer.

All this job-bashing got me thinking about the reason people are comfortable putting down what other people do for a living. If nobody had a problem with what I was doing for a living when I was miserable, why are they suddenly piping up now I’m happy? Are happy people just bearing the brunt of other people’s frustrations? And, if so, is that fair?

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It definitely doesn’t feel fair to me when a stranger, or worse – a friend, declares my job ‘easy’ or ‘not a real job’. If it’s so easy why aren’t they working as a writer, instead of spreading negative energy around the coffee shop on a Tuesday morning? If it’s not a real job, why am I being paid to do it? Whatever the reason, their comments have done something great for me, they helped me realise the value of what I do. A value that runs deeper than money or validation from anyone else.

I had to fill out a personal information form recently, you know one of those forms where you answer questions about your mental and physical health? I got to the bit about stress levels and the form asked me to circle, on a scale of 1 to 10, how stressed I feel. For the first time in my life, I circled ‘1’ – very minimal stress. It wasn’t until Claire pointed it out later that I realised how cool it was and I couldn’t stop smiling about it. I’m a 1! Which is odd, because I have no job security, no guarantee this will work and no work structure. All I have is trust in what I do and a feeling of contentment that tells me it’s right.

That feeling and the feeling of satisfaction and joy I have every day is worth more to me than anything else any other job could provide, more than money or the look of being impressed that might flash over someone’s face if I told them I did something they deemed impressive. The coffee shop lady helped me realise this, by pushing her negative energy right in my face and forcing me to deal with it. That said, it doesn’t make it okay.

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There seems to be an unspoken job hierarchy, there are certain jobs we all nod at and appreciate and accept quite easily. Then, there are jobs that seem weird, off-beat or flakey. Jobs that are too-good-to-be-true or somehow unfair. It doesn’t matter what the job description says or how much they get paid to do it if they’re working and being compensated for it… it’s a job. It works both ways too, you know, people are quick to envy supermodels or actors and comment on their jobs as being easy. If it’s so easy, why aren’t we all supermodels or movie stars?

There’s never going to be a time when every single person’s values and beliefs align with each other. Some people will always feel more secure in a high-powered, fast-paced, big income job while others will love the freedom of casual or freelance work. It doesn’t matter which category you fit into, what’s important is, just because someone loves what they do, it doesn’t detract from its value or meaning.  So, no matter how ‘easy’ someone else’s job may look from the outside in, if you aren’t working side-by-side in the same job as them, take a moment to think before you judge. If you’re on the receiving end of some negativity or job-bashing, just remember it’s you who determines the value of what you do.

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Little Grey Box Phoebe Lee ProfilePhoebe Lee is a travel writer and award-winning blogger with a love for storytelling. Phoebe creates practical, fun and engaging written content designed to inspire and energise travel-lovers and dreamers. Follow her and Matt’s adventures at home and around the world, right here on Little Grey Box and through InstagramFacebook and YouTube.

 

 

 

7 Comments on The true value of your job

  1. You’re a self-actualizer. That’s awesome. So few achieve that.

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    • It’s because you work so hard for it, it irks you. It’s like when I didn’t go to the gym, people would comment that I am always eating and still skinny. I use to take these compliments but deep down know, I’m actually not. I am good at hiding my “fat” parts with the way I dress and I was terribly unhealthy. Then I started going to gym. I work out 5 days a week for the past year. Now I feel strong, healthy and happy. But when people make that same comment about always eating and still skinny, I get mad. I’m not cleverly hiding my body through strategic layers anymore, I work my ass off not to. But no one sees what happens and how hard your work behind the scenes and assumes life’s easy for you.

      I say get mad! But don’t let it consume you. Use it. Think a few evil things in that moment, smile and say, yeah, life is good! Then walk off like a boss! hugs Xo

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  2. i look at it like this:
    * if you don’t perform in whatever job you’re doing you’ll either get fired or no one will hire you – same goes for writing
    * you are provided monetary or other benefits for whatever job you’re doing – same with writing
    * if you perform well in whatever job you’re doing it will be recognised and you will be given further opportunities – same with writing
    * only a certain group have the skills and abilities to succeed in whatever job you’re doing – same with writing
    How could it not be considered employment, and a great one at that?! You’re one of few people I know brave enough to to take the plunge and actually do what you are passionate about, regardless of the risks. Let the haters be, I’m sure if it wasn’t your choice of career they’d find something else to harp on about. Some people are just negative and you can’t, or shouldn’t, try to change that – just steer clear.
    And to anyone that says that writing is something anyone could do i challenge them to write something that’s as personable and relatable as yours, while still being witty AND getting your message across! That’s the most common thing I think of when I read your pieces – the single biggest reason you have succeeded so well in this industry already (coz let’s face it, there are ‘old Hands’ that haven’t gotten the exposure you have) is because of your writing style. So as hard as it is ignore the haters and focus on those that are cheering you on

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  3. I think it’s great what you’ve done, and I think you’re friends are spot on – she’s just jealous!

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  4. Great post! As someone working a ‘traditional’ job, who is trying to figure out what I want to do professionally that I can be passionate about, I have seen the guts and hard work it takes to step off the path that everyone else seems to want to take. I am always inspired when I meet (or read about) people who have taken the leap and work doing something they love. Thanks!!

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  5. Girl, where is Your confidence?! You should be proud of everything that You accomplished! Your work is amazing and no one should make You feel less! Only mediocre and unhappy 9 to 5 people find satisfaction in putting others down.. In situations like this I always think to myself “Bless them, change me”. Anyway, You go, girl!

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